Catechism of the Catholic Church
CCC 1680-1690All the sacraments, and principally those of Christian initiation, have as their goal the last Passover of the child of God which, through death, leads him into the life of the Kingdom.
The Christian meaning of death is revealed in the light of the Paschal Mystery of the death and Resurrection of Christ in whom resides our only hope. The Christian who dies in Christ Jesus is "away from the body and at home with the Lord."
The Church who, as Mother, has borne the Christian sacramentally in her bosom during his earthly pilgrimage, accompanies him at his journey's end, in order to surrender him "into the Father's hands."
The Christian funeral confers on the deceased neither a sacrament nor a sacramental, since he has "passed" beyond the sacramental economy. It is nonetheless a liturgical celebration of the Church.
The different funeral rites express the Paschal character of Christian death and are in keeping with the situations and traditions of each region, even as to the color of the liturgical vestments worn.
The homily in particular must avoid the literary genre of funeral eulogy and illuminate the mystery of Christian death in the light of the risen Christ.
If the Eucharist is celebrated, the heart of the Paschal Mystery is set forth: the sacrifice of Christ on the cross is made present, the Church offers to the Father in the Holy Spirit the gift of the Son, and prays that the departed may be purified and gathered into the Kingdom.
A farewell to the deceased is his final "commendation to God" by the Church. It is "the last farewell by which the Christian community greets one of its members before his body is brought to its tomb."
Code of Canon Law
CIC 1176-1185Deceased members of the Christian faithful must be given ecclesiastical funerals according to the norm of law.
Ecclesiastical funerals provide spiritual support for the deceased, honor their body, and bring the solace of hope to the living.
The Church earnestly recommends that the pious custom of burying the bodies of the deceased be observed; nevertheless, the Church does not prohibit cremation unless it was chosen for reasons contrary to Christian doctrine.
The funeral of any member of the faithful must generally be celebrated in his or her own parish church.
No favoritism toward persons is to be shown in funerals, and the poor are not to be deprived of fitting funerals.
As regards funeral rites, catechumens are to be considered members of the Christian faithful.
The local ordinary can permit children whom the parents intended to baptize but who died before baptism to be given ecclesiastical funerals.
Unless they gave some signs of repentance before death, the following must be deprived of ecclesiastical funerals: 1) notorious apostates, heretics, and schismatics; 2) those who chose the cremation of their bodies for reasons contrary to Christian faith; 3) other manifest sinners who cannot be granted ecclesiastical funerals without public scandal of the faithful.
If any doubt occurs, the local ordinary is to be consulted, and his judgment is to be followed.
Order of Christian Funerals
OCF 1-34The Church through its funeral rites commends the dead to God's merciful love and pleads for the forgiveness of their sins. At the funeral rites, especially at the celebration of the Eucharistic sacrifice, the Christian community affirms and expresses the union of the Church on earth with the Church in heaven.
The funeral rites should express clearly the Paschal character of Christian death. The funeral rites are celebrations of the Paschal Mystery of Christ.
Music is integral to the funeral rites. It allows the community to express convictions and feelings that words alone may fail to convey. It has the power to console and uplift the mourners and to strengthen the unity of the assembly in faith and love. The texts of the songs chosen for a particular celebration should express the Paschal Mystery of the Lord's suffering, death, and triumph over death and should be related to the readings from Scripture.
Since music can evoke strong feelings, the music for the celebration of the funeral rites should be chosen with great care. The music at funerals should support, console, and uplift the participants and should help to create in them a spirit of hope in Christ's victory over death and in the Christian's share in that victory.
Key Magisterial Documents
These are the authoritative Church documents that govern the celebration of Catholic funerals.
Catechism of the Catholic Church
1992Paragraphs 1680-1690 teach the theology of Christian death and funerals, including the meaning of the funeral rites and why eulogies are not permitted during the homily.
Read on Vatican.vaCode of Canon Law
1983Canons 1176-1185 establish who must receive ecclesiastical funerals, who may be denied them, where funerals should be celebrated, and norms for burial and cremation.
Read on Vatican.vaOrder of Christian Funerals (OCF)
1989The ritual book governing all three funeral rites (Vigil, Mass, Committal). Contains norms for music, readings, homily, and the structure of each liturgical celebration.
Sacrosanctum Concilium
1963The Second Vatican Council's Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy. Paragraphs 112-121 establish the principles for sacred music, giving Gregorian chant pride of place and defining the role of music in worship.
Read on Vatican.vaMusicam Sacram
1967Instruction on Music in the Liturgy. Prohibits secular music during liturgical celebrations (§43), establishes that recorded music is not permitted (§60), and defines appropriate instruments (§63).
Read on Vatican.vaAd resurgendum cum Christo
2016CDF Instruction on burial and cremation. Permits cremation but requires ashes be kept in a sacred place. Prohibits scattering ashes, keeping them at home, or dividing them into jewelry.
Read on Vatican.vaImportant Clarifications
Suicide
Persons who have died by suicide are not denied a Catholic funeral. The Church recognizes that psychological factors may diminish responsibility and entrusts these souls to God's mercy.
CCC 2282-2283
Divorced and Remarried
Persons who are divorced and civilly remarried are not denied a Catholic funeral. Canon 1184 does not include them among those who may be deprived of ecclesiastical funerals.
CIC Can. 1184
Unbaptized Infants
Children whose parents intended to have them baptized but who died before baptism may be given ecclesiastical funerals with the permission of the local ordinary (bishop).
CIC Can. 1183 §2
When in Doubt
If any doubt arises about whether a person may receive a Catholic funeral, the local ordinary (bishop) is to be consulted. His judgment is to be followed. The Church always errs on the side of mercy.
CIC Can. 1184 §2