The Vigil (Wake)
Usually held the evening before the funeral, at the funeral home or church
Greeting
The priest or deacon welcomes those present and opens with the Sign of the Cross and a brief introduction.
Scripture Reading
One or more scripture passages are read, chosen to bring comfort and proclaim the hope of resurrection.
Homily or Reflection
A brief reflection on the readings and the life of the deceased in the light of faith.
Intercessions
Prayers offered for the deceased, the family, and all who mourn.
Words of Remembrance
Family or friends may share memories and reflections about the deceased. This is the customary time for eulogies.
Closing Prayer
The vigil concludes with the Lord's Prayer and a final blessing.
The Funeral Mass
The central liturgy of the Order of Christian Funerals, celebrated in the parish church
Reception of the Body
The priest meets the coffin at the church door, sprinkles it with holy water (recalling baptism), and places a white pall over it.
Procession to the Altar
The coffin is brought to the front of the church, near the Paschal candle. The entrance hymn is sung.
Liturgy of the Word
The scripture readings chosen by the family: First Reading (OT), Responsorial Psalm, Second Reading (NT), and Gospel. The priest gives a homily reflecting on the readings and the hope of resurrection.
General Intercessions
Prayers for the deceased, the bereaved family, and the universal Church. Family members may read these.
Liturgy of the Eucharist
The preparation of gifts, Eucharistic Prayer, and Holy Communion. Family members may bring the gifts to the altar.
Final Commendation
The most solemn moment of the funeral. The priest incenses the coffin and prays the Song of Farewell, commending the deceased to God's mercy.
Procession to the Place of Committal
The coffin is carried out of the church as the recessional hymn is sung. The funeral procession forms to travel to the cemetery.
The Rite of Committal
The final prayers at the cemetery or place of interment
Scripture Verse
The priest or deacon opens with a brief scripture passage.
Prayer of Committal
The presider prays over the grave or place of interment, commending the body to the earth and the soul to God.
Intercessions
Brief prayers for the deceased and for those who mourn.
Lord's Prayer
All pray the Lord's Prayer together.
Final Blessing
The priest blesses those present and may sprinkle the grave with holy water one final time.